Why do we say "he's got balls" to imply that someone (male or female) is tough?

I’m just gonna take a stab at answering this, so it’s only a guess. I’m thinking though, it’s because in the past, men were stereotyped as tough and able to handle things no matter how bad they are and women are looked upon as fragile and in need of protection. So, balls are connected to men which are connected to being tough and strong.

Hahahaha, I love “find the relation” puzzles.

So men should be proud that something that will make them cry in falsetto is the symbol of their courage?

Testosterone, plain and simple! Which doesn’t make you a man, manhood is in your heart!

yes riser thats basically it lol

As Duke Nukem would say ”I’ve got balls of steal” implying he’s a hardass, such a hardass, that nothing would make him cry, even a kick in the nuts, cause hes that tough….

see, now balls of steel I can understand because that implies that not only are you courageous and tough but you are also virtually immortal.

There ya go iceblu. Exactly what I was trying to say. hahaha.

@Randy anytime bud =]
@Riser sorry i misunderstood your question =X

When I talk to people about losing my eye I tell them I use to thank geting kick in the nuts hurt

@Iceblu: Tis ok sir. I wrote it in a state of being “attacked” by the fiance and the fatigue that comes from an eleven hour drive from Lake Tahoe so… it’s probably my fault in that I wasn’t clear enough with my question. :)

@riser i love how you type, i feel like im reading from Dr. Jackal and Mr. Hide for some reason ahahha or that time era =D its np, no worrys =]

could it be because lots of times when its used its because someone is doing something that could very easily hurt them

@Iceblu: That is hilarious. I have been accused of being a Dr. Jeckyl/Mr. Hyde many times and I have always appreciated the accusations whether intended to be compliments or criticism. I like the idea of being that two sided coin because… I have balls. :P

@oneye1 or another instance is when someone does something heroic or unexplainable..

“Dude hes gonna jump 57 old retired vietnam vets. in his moped!
Wow, that kid has some balls…”

@Riser it wouldn’t surprise me at all =D np, its my pleasure

I definitely think oneye1 is on to something there.

ya ice they say he’s got balls because he’s going to get hurt

so on the opposite end of the spectrum of women being fragile and men being tough, would someone who’s to afraid of doing something, or whonisn’t courageous, would you say “dude, he/she’s got ovaries!”?

I suppose calling someone a “pussy” or a “pansy” is sort of the same.

I don’t really understand how the saying came into existence either…

Is a guy with brass balls more manly than one with steel? Which one is more macho?

My take on it would be that someone who puts himself forward (puts himself in a risky position) is courageous exactly because he is making his most vulnerable area accessable. He’s making a statement, that although he could be injured, he’s taking that chance anyway. Isn’t that the definition of courage? Do something in spite of the inherent risk?

Because generally bravery is equated with being mascaline. Masculine >male>balls.

The expression ‘got balls’ probably does not refer to the fact that he has. Most males have them. What marks out the person for being said to ‘have them’ is confidence in a given situation. Think ‘he’s got the guts to do it’ and you’re almost there. Whereas text books tell you that size does not matter away from sexual activity, to most males size matters a great deal, even away from sexual activity. To them, genitalia can help, or hinder, their self-confidence. Once you’ve accepted this link for males between size and self-confidence, it is not too difficult to see that a self-confident person may have bigger balls. Of course, there’s no science to it. You can’t say how big equals confidence, or that to be confident you have to have them. Just think ‘balls’ instead of ‘guts’ and you’ve understood it, so long as you appreciate that balls mean a great more to males than females sometimes imagine. It’s all about being male: the more male you are down there, the more male you might be in that you are confident.

It’s obvious, testosterone is produced in the testicles (balls) and is what makes men more likely to run into a burning building to save someone’s life or equivalent action. Balls do that to men. Balls can be hurt easily but they’re what make men strong and able to deal with dangerous situations that take allot of balls to do.