(NSFW) What do men prefer... (there is a question for women too)

Of course, a median is the best. Tight vaginas really hurt, especially when you’re ramming them hard. Very loose vaginas have less feeling for a guy with an average penis size.

It depends on how tight tight is and how loose loose is. The old jokes about loose vaginas comes from the humor of a vagina being stretched to a point that the dick doesn’t touch the sides at all. You know… like “sticking your dick in a coffee can”.

I have a vagina and sometimes find myself in one – with sex toys and fingers – I don’t care how tight or loose, obviously – I’ve always thought a tight vagina feels good to men I’ve had sex with and so I’ve always done my Kegels – not only is my vagina as tight as it was before I had two kids but I can also do incredible squeezing if I feel like it.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir You figured out the train schedule yet? ;-)

I prefer being inside a woman where I can feel pressure all around. Firm pressure. So we can both feel things in hi def 3-D. I’m not really into “ramming” as @Blackberry so eloquently puts it. But the problem of being in someone so tight they hurt you probably is more an issue of lubrication than tightness, I think.

In my experience, looseness is also related to lubrication—in this case, rather a lot of it. It is very exciting, because you can be damn sure she is totally into it, but it can be a bit disappointing when you don’t gain enough “traction.”

But hey, there’s a lot of games to play, and I’ve had very intense orgasms in many different ways. The biggest sex organ is your brain. I’ve had experiences on the phone where we both felt like we were together physically. Imagination.

A woman you love is wonderful. Expressing that love physically is incredible. If you love her, it really doesn’t matter whether she’s loose or tight. You’ll find a way to make each other happy.

I recommend the Keystone Express.

@wundayatta Heh, no! Does the Keystone Express get completely dark?

I’ve heard plenty over tight about men liking “tight”. As @Simone_De_Beauvoir wrote, Kegel exercises will keep lady bits in good responsive order. Nowadays women can also go to a cosmetic surgeon and be more tightly slung down there. Only a few men have told me they don’t like tight or gripping/squeezing sensations during sex- they turned out to not be very good lovers.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir Dark enough. Especially in winter! The only problem is that it ends up in Harrisburg. :( Course, going the other way, it ends up in New York, and you’d get twice as much time. :)

@wundayatta How about ‘Plowing’? ;)

@wundayatta You know, I was going to live in Harrisburg when I came to the U.S. but my dad tore his achilles heel and we had to go to NY instead…weird, how destiny works

@Simone_De_Beauvoir You can thank your lucky stars for your father’s injury. Really, spending even an hour there is an hour too much. However, for an experience of the type we are discussing, I think the sacrifice would be worth it.

@wundayatta You’d never do it, you are faithful.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir Of course I’d never do it. I’m just having fun. Besides which, I’m notorious for missing my trains. You wouldn’t do it either, would you?

@wundayatta I’d ask for a photo first, of you, and then I’d consider it.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir Lookist! ;-)

@wundayatta Yeah, it’s worth it.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir It’s worth a photo? Is that what you’re trying to do? Weasel a photo out of me? The truth is that I am not one person. I’m a committee of four, each with different expertise. When they try to take a picture of us, the camera breaks! :-P

What’s worth what?

@wundayatta I meant it’s worth you giving up a photo if you can end up having sex with me.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir Doesn’t that kind of totally defeat the purpose? I mean, it’s not called a zipless fuck for nuthin. See a face, and it starts getting personal, which is so not the point.

@wundayatta I suppose you’re right.

@Simone_De_Beauvoir Just look at it this way. It saves you the cost of a train ticket! ;-)