Many have inspired me on my path, but one who had a lasting effect on me was a basic skills instructor in community college.
Picture a heavier Orson Welles (in his latter years), or maybe an “evil” Santa Claus, with a wirey, unkempt and greying beard, coupled with a commanding, intimidatingly resonant baritone voice resonating in a tiny, dingy-white, fluororescent-lit classroom.
But it was exactly his engaging presence and his aura that hooked me (and my fellow classmates) in; this curmudgeonly, cynical and dusty individual was my English 1A professor, Dr. John Reib.
Back in the early ‘90s, I was enrolled Dr. Reib’s intro English class, where with regularity, he conducted class with such a passion and zeal that, when coupled with his penchant for discussing the occult, made for some of the most off-the-wall, red-in-the-face, ‘psychotropic’ experiences (and I was not under “the influence” of anything illicit btw).
We’d often spend entire class meetings in heavy discourse, about everything except English, ranging from Zen Buddhism, to tantric rituals, to subliminal advertising, to serial monogamy, to viewing and discussing coffee table books about aliens living among us as indigenous pigmies living amongst the Amazon tribes in South America, to how he could speak in full sentences at 6 months of age, to his off-roading escapades in the California dunes in his Isuzu Trooper (lol). What a riot, and, needless to say, every day in his class was captivating…“reality tv” couldn’t hold a candle to this guy.
I also remember that he made us write down verbatim and commit to memory (via self-made flash cards that we had to carry at all times), so many obscure terms (in the dozens), that he claimed would help us understand “how to write a research paper”; and as far as I can remember, that was the only produceable outcome that we actually accomplished that was even remotely related to English…but darn it if he didn’t connect with every single person in that class-from single mothers, to newly emigrated international students, minorities, brainiacs, “rich kids”, and introverts (like me; btw this was public school in the L.A. community college system).
That is the memory that really stuck with me when thinking about answering this question.
Dr. Reib treated everyone as equals, making every one of us earn our grades, one day at a time, and truly revealed to me (perhaps for the first time in my young adult life), virtues such as responsibility, integrity, discipline, developing research skills, and the importance of being thorough. His profound connection to me and other students was remarkable (the man taught for over 35 years), and this inspiration did leave its mark on me-it was a contributing factor that led to my own pursuit of a career in teaching.
About a year later, while still an undergrad in college, and during a brief stint working as a bank teller, I bumped into a young man who, looking nothing like my teacher, revealed himself as Dr. Reib’s adopted son (he was cashing a check at my window). When I asked how his dad was doing, he sullenly replied that he had passed away just a month prior. I offered my sincere condolences, but from reading the look on his face, I could tell with piercing clarity that this was a profound loss for him. It was a truly heartbreaking moment for me, and at the same time, a very spiritual moment. Although I was saddened, I felt a sense of reverence in honoring his memory, and remembered what a unique opportunity I had experienced in my education having been his pupil.
To have been touched intellectually and spiritually by a scholar of this caliber, I often regard him as one would a follower of a guru; when I feel challenged by the rigors of my own professional work, I reflect on the idea that he touched so many lives in the years of his own journey, and I remember that specialness that brought me to where I am today.
He embodied everything I love about teaching and the value and responsibility of sharing knowledge, and the great reward that I enjoy today in teaching others how to learn, and perhaps most important: finding your passion in life, and “being the journey”.