I’ll apologize now for I have no idea how long this could be. I’ll try my best to keep it short. First, my story. I too have never participated in any high school clubs/sports & other shit like that. I never had a job all through high school & into college. My resume by my freshman year in college was a blank 8.5” by 11” sheet of white paper with my name & number on it. I may have started going to school for pre-law, but I knew I was going to be dropping out to pursue writing. Knowing this, I tried to bulk up my resume with things that are relevant & reflective of the work I can do & what I am capable of. I told my professors what I was interested in doing & they told me about a literary journal that I could write for & about school wide poetry contests. I wrote for both & succeeded in both. When I left college, I told my parents what I wanted to do. I looked around online for jobs, all I found were jobs that were 3,000 miles away, required a ton of experience or was a scam. I narrowed my focus down to screenwriting. It turned out that my father had a connection to a guy who knew a guy who was a writer/director. I got in touch with him. I shared with him the things I had written in college. As a practice run, I was sent a script & was told to just go nuts & wow him with whatever I was capable of. I sent it back & within a day I got a phone call saying that I was now his full time script editor & co-writer. Since then, I have continued to work for him. I have helped complete 6 scripts/projects. My resume is now exploding with experience. As my resume continues to grow, those jobs I looked at in the beginning of job searching – I am now qualified. So this is me now. Gaining experience at a rate I never thought possible, with job opportunities opening up everywhere.
Read through my experience, take out what seeds of knowledge there is to be sowed, throw out the rest. Now on to you, mister. (that’s right, this is my stern voice) First things first…uninstall Starcraft when you are ready to hunker down. Yes, you can keep your save files.
Tell everyone you know about what type of work you are interested in doing. Tell them to spread the word to their friends. It’s a small world. You will eventually have a connection to someone who is doing what you want to do. (For years, my father had this connection to a writer/director. I had no idea, because I never spoke up).
You remember that game cafe I showed you, check it out on your day off. I don’t give a shit if you have to hitchhike, just get there. When you get there – ask a million questions. When you run out of questions, sit & wait until you think of more. Play Starcraft while you wait & think. Tell them you are interested in working for them & that if they don’t have a job opening now, to contact you first when one does open.
Look online for dream jobs. Check out the requirements for those jobs & slowly fulfill each one of them. Print out that list & show it to your college professors. Ask, what can you do here at college to prepare yourself for this.
Just because you aren’t qualified for a job, doesn’t mean you can’t inquire about the position. Nothing is stopping you from contacting computer & gaming giants, like Valve, Intel, etc. & just ask about the jobs you are interested in & what is demanded of the people who do those jobs. They have email, so you can still be your shy little self & not have to talk to people on the phone.
My point of view on work, is that if it doesn’t relate to anything you are interested in & benefit you in the long run, you are wasting your time. You can start at the bottom, but start at the bottom of something that, when you look up, you see your dream job.
I think what is making this so hard, is that you are just now opening your eyes to the idea of a job. So everything is going to seem foggy & hard to navigate. You’ll see that, the longer you keep your eyes open & the more you search the mess, the easier it gets. It just seems overwhelming now because it feels like you are way behind & need to play catch up. Don’t worry about comparing yourself to everyone else. Just because you were late to the game, doesn’t mean you need to be punished with a shitty job.
If you are doing what you love, the job will be challenging, not difficult.
Don’t go looking for a career. Look for a job that will slowly evolve into the career. Find that lower level job & build upon it. Think of that game Katamari. Find that little peanut sized job & roll it around. Collecting & picking up experience & other odd jobs that are related. Build up that ball until it becomes a towering, massive ball of your achievements & employment. Soon, that ball will be able to knock down all those doors of opportunity.
Remember, we all love you & want the best for you. Now gogetajobyoubum. ʘ‿ʘ