(NSFW) Why do women like to recieve but not give?

Says who??? That’s a mighty big generalization there, and certainly not true in my case.

Try patience, kind discussion and letting her get used to the idea and then the activity.

In my years of being sexually active and comparing notes with friends and acquaintances then it’s my opinion that men are the ones usually amiss when it comes to initiating or giving back. The most often shared excuse for not initiating: wasn’t sure she was into that. The most often shared excuse for not reciprocating: got too turned on and couldn’t hold back.

With new partners then suggest a 69, be enthusiastic, be appreciative, say nice things about what you see and the likelihood of singles sessions will go up.

This behavior is a red flag in my book. I love to give and receive and if both aren’t happening, then I’m outtie.

I would also say a couple of guys I dated liked to receive just fine but thought sticking a finger up there was enough in return. Dated shortly.

Personally, I love to give to my husband, but I don’t like him to return the favor. It’s not my thing. However, In past experiences it was a rare occasion a man would offer. It was always that they expected it from me, but when it came my turn I got nothing.

Sounds like you should talk openly with your SO about your needs. She may have dated someone who didn’t like oral sex so she’s hesitant.

This may be considered shallow by some but if I discover lover isn’t into giving oral then I’m not interested in spending further time with them. I enjoy to give but I also enjoy to receive and the idea of someone not liking to give, thinking that part of sharing in my body is gross or whatever, I don’t like that.

I don’t think that’s true at all. Way too big of a generalization.

I’m more the opposite. Don’t generalize so much :)