NSFW: When in your life do you think you had the best sex, and what do you think it was due to?

For me, the best sex is when the girl lets me tie her down to the bed first (or to some other suitable object) :-p

Now, actually. :) Well, not right this second, but you know what I mean!

I think after 12 years of marriage, the closeness and level of intimacy from the things we’ve been through together, and just the large amount of practice time we’ve put in, have given both of us really good insight into what makes the other person “tick.” The quantity may not be the same as before we had kids, but the quality just gets better and better.

My best was with my last ex a little over a year ago. I really cared for her as she did me. Plus she was just amazing. She rocked my world in the sack.

I’ve often had great sex. There was once this incredible time with Alex in a tent when we were camping in KY and we didn’t know it then by I was pregnant w/Ark…every time I’m pregnant, I have more pleasurable sensations…there was this other time with an ex-partner in the shower and I think it was great because of how rough we were with each other and the trying not to slip and being wet everywhere added something intensifying to the experience…another great time was with a perfect stranger, a one night stand of 5 hours of non-stop (and I mean it) sex that made me sore for days after…it was the sheer shock of it all that, to this day, makes me smile about it.

Finding the right girl and being in love had everything to do with it!! ;)

I can’t think of one specific experience, but I definitely had the best sex of my life as a teenager. How does that John Cougar Mellencamp song go?

…Hold onto 16 as long as you can…

Did you have (what you consider) the best sex of your life when you were young?
No. When I was young then I couldn’t orgasm no matter what my partner or I did. I think now it was my self consciousness about letting myself do what I really wanted or ask for what I really wanted and then let myself go in the moment. Once I learned to do that then everything about sex changed.

Was it because you loved that person?
Yes. Being in love with someone who I feel loves me reciprocally has always made sex the most incredible while the love lasted.