Will the racism that emanates from the majority of the African American female population towards white women diminish in the future?

Disclaimer: I treat all individuals, regardless of skin color, with the respect in which I would like to be treated with. I am a white woman who is dating a black man. We have been dating for a year and a half and I have discovered through several first hand experiences that African American women treat me as if I am beneath them, and actually show hostility towards me because I am dating a black man. Of course these statements have been confirmed by my boyfriend. Things have been said to him from his African American female friends about me and the fact that I am white. I understand that there is this divide, but my question revolves around the prospect of hope. Will this debauchery end given enough time, or am I always going to receive such negativity from his culture? What do you think fluther?