Tips on having multiple orgasms? [NSFW]?

It would be useful to mention your gender. (Sorry, I don’t know you from previous questions.)

@Vortico Every reference to multiple orgasms that I’ve ever come (hehe) across has been of the female variety.

An ex (male) of mine could have them by clenching his PC muscles. At first I thought he was halting his orgasms all together but he’d have real ones where the first would be kinda cut short, the next a little fuller and the last one really hard to work off but well worth it for him. As a female I often have multiples but only since I got comfortable enough with my body in action to let it move how it wants with and/or against my partner.

@FutureMemory: Very true, although I could possibly imagine a male asking this as well.

@krose1223: In that case, try laying your finger on your clitoris during orgasm. (Assuming you have one. See above, haha.) This will likely trick an involuntary muscle into “thinking” that you haven’t orgasmed and will give you the ability to orgasm a number of times. Kegel exercises increase the number as well, supposedly.

Be really, really into the guy you’re doing it with.

To tell the truth, the only times a woman has ever had multiple orgasms with me was over the phone. I guess I give good phone. :-(
Go figure.

Girl here :)

Well, I hope I like the guy I’m with… I did marry him. :) We have really good sex… and like I said there are times I feel like I could orgasm again but then right before it happens I start getting uncomfortable and it starts to hurt… good feeling goes away after that.

@krose1223 Tell him after the first one, use his head. :-) Lots of women need some recovery time after an orgasm from intercourse. Try some heavy petting and other stimulation to get the second or beyond. Good luck.

Try for multiple orgasms from cunnilingus. Then if you’re successful, you might be aroused enough that intercourse could give you them too.

Well, I’ve always said it’s about good chemistry more than know how. G-spot, etc etc. we all know the drill, but good chemistry produces good sex. I’ve been with ladies that had many multiple orgasms and I’ve had a few experiences myself of having several, but there are those that I really cared for and had a comitted relationship and the sex was good, but not great. So, about the only advise would be more stimulation and foreplay if the chemistry is not strong.

Try a non-penetrative clitoral orgasm. Chemistry or no chemistry, this WILL do the trick. If you guys aren’t against using a couple of toys to spice things up, a vib right on the dildo can do wonders for you. You can also have your partner sitting right in front of you and watch you simulating yourself without touching you. The subsequent anticipation and the whole kinkiness of it all will get you going in no time.

Hope this helps :)

@lucifer i referring to intercourse. You would be correct. There are other ways.

Oh… Ok my Bad… then the second method, which eventually leads to intercourse should work. Try some role-playing to spice things up… It may just be that you need a lot to drink before you become sloshed ;)

got’cha! whatever works….anything behind closed doors that is consensual is fair game!

Amen to that :)

Imagine an old vidio you watched, or just imagine the words from a novel you read.

After the first orgasm, use a vibrator. It’s easy and you need no other bells or whistles. Your body will tell you how long to wait…several seconds, several minutes, it varies from time to time and from body to body.

Often it is better without all distraction from intercourse.

@lucifer: GA